Oh Marty. It's "neighbor". And I've heard that either "was" or "were" could be used in most cases, "was" is informal and now commonly accepted. "Were" will never be wrong if used. In most cases. Google "were vs was".
Seeing Edison post here, I'm reminded of the day he was telling nerd jokes.
I can't remember who all was there. Edison was reading some online comic having to do with computer science and math and... stuff. I didn't get most of them, but I laughed because he was laughing. Half way through, he asks if we want to hear a funny quote. Of course we do!
Edison: I can't remember how it goes and I don't want to mess it up, then it won't be funny. So we waited 30 minutes while he read more nerd jokes about statistics and... stuff.
Edison: Okay, I know the quote. "Mechanical engineers make good weapons, civil engineers make good targets." Isn't that funny? *chuckles*
JANE: That's what we've been waiting for? It's like the worst joke ever.
Edison: It's not a joke, it's a humorous quote. I think it's funny.And then he started to explain it.
I can't remember most of it, he just kept reading these jokes and laughing and we would laugh because we didn't get it. You had to be there!