Well, sad I have to say my view of BFM has changed tonight.
In server, BFM frankt and MacAir present, I was confused by a comment MacAir made and asked about it. ANother player called me a girl for it, I said I considered that a rude remark, and when I said I was just asking for clarification, I was told that I wouldn't be able to understand, and that it was my problem for choosing to take offense rather than their problem for saying it.
Now I don't know what world y'all live in, but being called a girl is sexist and being told you are too dumb to understand is offensive and clearly meant as such.
But the worse part is no response from either of the BFM's present, zip nada zilch the entire rest of that map or into the next on either the offensive comment or the original request for clarification.